A few years ago I joined in on the fifty two week blogging challenge for romance authors, using the prompts from this great organisation. I’m jumping in for 2019 at week eleven, and go back and answer a few of what missed…. in other words take a break from proof reading.
Question: Do you hold, share or hide an odd hidden talent?
I love astrology, I just can’t get enough of how the study of the planet movement can impact on life. I studied it, got a diploma in astrology and yep every month I do look at the what the plants are doing. Sometimes I plan things I want to do based on what star sign the new or full Moon is in, or where my ruling planet for my star sign is in the universe. Yep, I know my birth chart off the top of my head, and do compare it to the day that certain astrological major events are happening, like a planet moving signs or whatever event is taking place like an eclipse for example. Just to see how it may impact me, or what ‘house of life’ the planet transit is happening in. Is that weird? Probably.
Question: The difference between collecting and hording?
I found this such an interesting prompt, as I really had to think and question myself. My paranoia set in big time!
Kim’s brain ticking, and eyes narrow: To collect, means you collect things that are valuable, rare or something useful. Hording is when you’re afraid to let go of something you’ve collected, no matter how broken or unusable it is. Hmmm yeah, when my shoes are old and battered…. I chuck them out, and buy a new pair to add to the ‘collection’. Same with all the beauty products. Hmm yeah yeah. If kept hold of the old shoes, finished glosses or lippies…. then I’d be hording right?… right. *Nods head slowly while pouting* …. yeah, that sounds about right you’re collector girl, don’t panic.
Question: stress eating, whys and wherefores?
You know, I don’t and never have done this. I get that some do, but when I am feeling stressed I turn the other way from food. I tend to not eat, if there’s very stressful things happening, not like everyday stresses or challenges but real life stress. I can’t answer this one from the why or wherefores.
Question: Point of view choices and preferences?
Now, this is going to sound very strange from a romance author, but I proudly break every rule in the ‘romance writing’ cookbook of ‘how it should be done.’ In fact, I recommend to any new writer to stay away from those books, as they mass produce the same old. I stray whenever I feel like it, if the story calls me to. I write first person, present tense and I don’t give a hoot who thinks what. And that is probably why I stand out, I’m not the only romance writer that does it I know, but those of us that do we’re the rebels and the bad asses to go against what’s considered the norm and ‘way to write romance’. And we are the ones probably turned away from agents and publishers the most, because we are rebels. But I’ll be honest… I chucked that cookbook right out, along with the cookbook that says every male lead is ‘tall, dark and handsome’ and every female lead is ‘ waiting to be saved’. * Smirks* nooo, no no, I like my women like I like my coffee strong! For the most part anyway, same with the men.
The romance genre is very full of third person past tense, which is nice and okay, and yes I can write like that if I feel like it or feel the story needs it, but that’s not what got me my first publishing deal, that’s not what made me an award winning author, and it’s not what landed an agent’s interest in my the novel I wrote to submit this year. So I keep it real, and I keep it how I like it and where my true gift shines.
I’ll let you into a secret too those very same chapters I submitted to two agents, one came back and said to me ‘ I need to follow the rules’ and asked me if I’d consider doing a rewrite she did want my work, I kid you not, I actually laughed told her ‘no thanks.’ The other one she requested the full manuscript, in order to know where I stood with them I checked if the tense is okay , they said ‘yeah it works keep there.’ From this I feel be creative don’t feel bound to rules.
Personally I feel that POV’s should be written from the angle the story calls for it to be written from, if it’s an intense thrilling story there is nothing like bringing the reader up close. My honest POV, on writing POV in the romance genre and generally is, be brave because there are readers of this genre (which includes me), who are sick and tired of the same old same old, same plots done over, same feel of the story the same predictability.
On the other hand I could feel like this and write how I write, as I write things like general thriller and crime, so I guess that’s where I get the rebel streak in me from. But, in a nutshell there are ‘rules’ and then there’s talent and creativity which will allow you to tell the story, and find your own style and not have to follow ‘rules.’ Don’t be afraid to use it and stand out, there is nothing wrong with that. This is by no means a knock to any writer who sticks to the rules either, it’s just an honest response to this prompt.
Question: reading, writing or living?
All three, damn I can’t do one without the other two. I can’t write without the urge to read, reading is what brought me to writing, not the other way around. I ran a book club for years ,and read two books or more a month before I even even wrote ‘Chapter One’ and wrote a story. But I always had a love of writing, I needed a push I got it and never stopped. I need to live to read and write, and and live for reading and writing, so I need all three in my life!
Right! Okay, back to the proof reading before bed, I am going over the stories from The Suspenseful Collection Volume Two. I can’t believe how going back over work I did with Didi from 2017, has made me smile so much, mainly as the challenge was and still will be to write the story over a weekend LOL. It’s such a great challenge every week, I need to thank you again if you voted in the writing prompts we used for the stories we have so far for this volume.
Right now, we’re writing the bonus stories ( that will only appear in the actual published book only), and extending the ones you all voted for to be extended in the actual volume. This trip down memory lane is pretty cool. Thank you guys!
I hope once I speak with Didi again next week, we’ll have a plan on how we go about the challenge in 2019, and voting. I have never been more challenged by this kind of writing prompt challenge I LOVE IT. Thing is I have no say on how the story ends ( unless I’m author two), but the challenge of being author two is I need to just roll with what Didi puts on my plate, and lap it up I can’t change it as we don’t talk about the story it’s against the rules!
On the other hand being author one, is also just as challenging as you need to break the ice and give the reader something interesting quick as it’s a short story, and the other writer something good enough to work with, and hope they don’t hate it! I could go on, but seriously it’s brought a much needed smile back to my face, after personal withdrawal to deal with life it’s great to be back doing what I love.
Catch y’all soon.
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I enjoyed catching up on your blog prompt posts. I agree about writing from the POV you want and writing the story you want to write instead of trying to follow a set of rules. Either way there are no guarantees, you can’t please everyone, so you need to write the kind of book you want to read.
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Good morning Kate, thanks for stopping by I am making my way though everyone’s links on the writing challenge too. Yeah, there’s never any guarantees you’re right, so you may as well produce what you enjoy rather than feeling bound to a cookbook. I agree you will NEVER please everyone, so please yourself first and anyone else you please is just a bonus on the way!
I’m with you on breaking the rules, and going with what the story dictates. One of the first stories I wrote ended up having four main characters, and it’s one of my best sellers.
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