‘How do you communicate differently online, than in person, if at all. How do you communicate emotion and intent in a purely written medium?’
What a cool short little prompt for today’s date. In all honestly I don’t actually feel or think that I communicate much differently online, than in person. The only real difference I think in my communication is it depends on who I communicate with be it online or in person, that might be a different style. When I think about this no matter how I’m communicating or who with, I’m always:
- Pretty straight forward I don’t tend to beat around the bush, you get to a certain age and you pretty much say what you mean. But that does not mean I’m mean, rude or nasty. Never at all, just honest.
But the style may change depending on who it’s with. If I am communicating with say my mum or son. I’m less likely to use swear words, well very unlikely actually. Same could be said when I was working in an office kinda environment, outside of the house, I wouldn’t really use bad language with co-workers. But, my style of communication was always the same as above in the points. With friends then I guess I’ll let my guard down a lot more, and will use bad language or even with family members that I’m close with LOL.
In text messages, I think it’s the writer in me, my text messages are still written in full. No ‘text talk’ or things like wyd, or idn or idc short form. I remember having to ask someone what smh meant LOL. I didn’t know as I don’t use the short form, I even spell out the numbers , as if I was ‘writing, writing’ like a book or story. I’ve only really just noticed this now as I’m thinking about writing this.
Overall, for me I communicate pretty much the same in person as online, my personality is not really any different. When I do communicate online the tone is always relaxed, informal, friendly just like in person. So nope, for me there is no real difference in how, just when it comes to who I communicate with.
How Do I Communicate Emotion In A Pure Written Form??
This is where this prompt get’s interesting for me, from many of my book reviews the feed from readers a lot of the time has been that, this is something I do well with characters and in plots. And to be honest, I don’t actually know how I do it… I can’t answer, but I guess it comes naturally when I just try to ‘think like the character’ or even ‘place myself in their shoes’ that’s all I do. I remove myself and what I would do, or even how I would act or what I personally think about whatever shit I’ve landed my characters in LOL and simply just try to communicate the emotion ( in writing) as if it’s really from them, and nothing to do with me. I really don’t know what else can be said, when it comes to fiction work. Just become the character or the situation that’s going on.
With my own personal communication via text, or email etc and putting across how I feel, in all honesty, I’m the emoji queen! I really am I do love to use them 🙂 With words, or sometimes there are certain emojis that just express exactly what I wanna say. I wish I could show you them somehow on this blog. If anyone is friends with me on FB I’m sure you’ll know what face I use a lot, when I’m in shock, can’t believe something or even just fed up!
And that’s it, that’s my communication style, what’s yours? ( If I could naturally there would be the thinking face emoji here).